Is it worth it to invest in love?
Why are we keep on investing in relationship after so many heartaches? There is a saying in Vietnamese which translates into something like “Love is hurt, but it hurts more without love. I rather get hurt and be loved, then not to have love at all”. And I believe i finally understand what’s that mean. I guess I always a romantic girl under all the tough and cold skin. I can finally say that I am in love, or that I am blessed to know what love is. Like Kelly Clarkson song, “A moment like this”, most people have to wait a life time for a moment that I shared with my current boyfriend. I have to admit, I did took him for granted at first, but I’m glad I woke up before it was too late. I am graceful for have found him. I can honestly said I finally know what is to be in love. To have someone i can count on, to have someone who will spoil my ridiculous demand and needs. I know that he might not finacially stable to support me but I know he will always stand by me no matter what. I knew I love him when I was willingly to set aside the fact that I might have to support him financially in the future. But if that mean i get to spend the rest of my life looking into his eyes and hear him laughing with joy. I am now can understand what it means to find joy in him. I am happy when he is happy, something i couldn’t never understand before.
Granted, we fight alot of times over stupid things. We have alot of disagreements. He still make me mad every other days. But i rather be fighting with him than to spend time with anyone else. I want him to be the last person I see before I go to bed and the first person I want to see when I wake up. I don’t know what the future brings. And I don’t know how many times I will get hurt in this relationship, but I would go through all that to have another moment with him.
I guess what i’m trying to say is: sometimes we have to go through a couple heartaches to get to the good stuff, the loving. And for that my friends, don’t give up love. Keep on trying because I am guarante you, it is worth it, every moments of it.
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